When you finally heal from a narcissist. The feeling, the moment, the freedom!! Healing isn’t about revenge, closure, or even forgiveness, it’s about freedom. The day you stop feeling anything..
- Sai V
- Feb 6
- 2 min read
The Moment You Realize You’ve Healed… And They No Longer Matter
There comes a time in your journey when you stop searching for answers, stop waiting for apologies, and stop replaying the past in your mind. You wake up one day and realize that the person who once consumed your thoughts—the one who tore you apart, the one who made you question your worth—no longer has a place in your energy. There is no anger, no longing, no need for closure. Just silence. Just indifference.
This is what healing feels like.
For those who have endured the emotional warfare of a narcissist, the journey to healing is never linear. It is filled with false hopes, second-guessing, and moments where you believe you may never escape the grip they once had on your soul. The manipulations, the gaslighting, the cycles of push and pull—they condition you to believe that you will always be tied to them in some way. That the pain they inflicted will always linger.
But here’s the truth: healing doesn’t require them. It doesn’t need their remorse, their validation, or their acknowledgment of what they did to you. Healing happens when you take your power back—not by fighting, not by proving, but by no longer feeling.
When you heal from a narcissist, you don’t just move on—you transcend. The past no longer dictates your present. The wounds no longer define you. And the person who once had the ability to break you no longer holds a single piece of you.
That is the moment you realize you’ve won. Not because you sought revenge. Not because you found the perfect words to say. But because they are simply nothing to you now. No hate, no love, no attachment. Just freedom.
And that is the real power.
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